By Traci Porterfield
5. Commit to Positive Changes
Everyone has some part of their life they want to improve .
. . the “gaps” that exist between who they are and what they want to be. Some
of us focus on it regularly, yet for others, it may not be a priority. When you
commit to positive change, big or small, your self-love and acceptance will
grow, which in turn provides you with more love to give the world. It is
never too late for you to make positive changes and to live the life you
envision for yourself.
Take action
Do one thing right now that you’ve been
procrastinating or resisting doing. If you’re single and want to meet new
people and potential partners, consider joining an online dating website. Or as
a smaller step, start collecting some fabulous photos of yourself so that when
you are ready, you will have some amazing pictures to choose from. For those
who want to make new friends who share an interest in a particular activity,
meetup.com is a wonderful resource for finding a group or even starting one of
your own.
If you want to nurture your relationship with a spouse or partner, consider how you can be more loving and giving. What lights your partner up? If you don't know for sure, ask. It’s an easy question: “What makes you happy?” And in turn, share what brings you happiness. Take the pressure off your partner by sharing what you like and making it easy for him or her to love you. Also find out what your partner finds romantic or intimate – and share what you like, too. If one person goes to great efforts to prepare something that the other doesn’t even enjoy, the end result can often be disappointment. So talk about it ahead of time. Offer ideas and be open to receiving them. Get excited! It will get you both in the mood for romance and will set the stage for success if you are both on the same page. Remember that we don’t find a relationship that is extraordinary; we create it. Our power lies in our small daily choices, one after another.
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6. Create Momentum
We can expand love in our life through the power of
momentum, taking small steps that build our energy and enthusiasm. Once
we set it in motion, momentum can be an amazing and abundant force for change
in our life. How do we get the momentum we need for change that lasts, that
inspires and that infuses every day with purpose? We begin today.
Things don’t just happen all at once, they happen gradually.
And they progress at an increasing rate as we continue to take steps in the
direction of our goals and dreams. We build momentum, and that momentum
ultimately takes on a life of its own. It is easier to move if you are already
in motion than if you are standing still. Even if you discover that you’re
going in the wrong direction, it’s easier to shift course and redirect your
flow of energy than to start from scratch. Also remember that it doesn’t
matter where you start; all that matters is that you start.
Take action
What can you do to get some momentum started today? Music is
one of the easiest ways to shift your energy quickly, so put on your favorite
music and move. Get physically active. Start by setting small,
achievable goals. Commit to doing something every day for ten
minutes that gets your energy flowing and inspires you. Everyone on this
planet can find ten extra minutes, so no excuses! Spend your energy cultivating
your own happiness and love. Your inner light will inspire others.
Source:
http://www.chopra.com/ccl/seven-ways-to-inspire-love-in-your-life?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=Social&utm_campaign=February&utm_content=7%20Ways%20Inspire%20Love#sthash.S32vgmfg.9OwZddH1.dpuf
