Showing posts with label say no. Show all posts
Showing posts with label say no. Show all posts

Saturday, 8 August 2015

3 Secrets to Being Super Productive Without Feeling Busy

You don't need to feel like a rat on a wheel to get a lot done.
BY JESSICA STILLMAN


If you want to lose weight, you need to eat less. If you want to see the sun rise, you look east. And if you want to get more done, you'll end up busier, right?
These three statements may all sound like timeless, unavoidable truths, but according to a recent Medium post by Praxis founder and CEO Isaac Morehouse, the last one is actually a fallacy. You might not have much luck trying to change the direction the sun moves across the sky or your basic metabolic math, but he insists it really is possible to be more productive and yet feel less frantic.
“I have three kids; I'm running a business; I create and post a new podcast episode at least once a week; I write seven to 10 articles per week; I travel and speak, on average, twice a month; I'm committed to doing one form of exercise every day and reading a book every week. Yet I still have plenty of time,” he says.
How does he manage this seemingly miraculous feat? Some of his tips are common productivity fare, such as outsourcing tasks and learning to say no, but a few of his ideas are both subtle and original.

1. Be honest

Well, that sounds simple. But Morehouse insists this essential first step can be a struggle. Being busy is often seen as a sign of importance and success, after all, so if you're driven, admitting that busyness is just not you can take a little bit of soul searching.
“It took me a long, long time to admit that I hate being busy," Morehouse writes. "From my mid-teens to mid-late 20s, I was busy nearly every hour of the day. I wanted to be one of those people who live for the rush and never slow down, so I adopted (or rather didn't resist) that lifestyle. But it was never me. The sooner I came to terms with that bit of self-knowledge and stopped feeling bad about it, the easier it became to begin the process of unbusying myself.”

2. Kill the clutter

If you want to get stuff done without feeling busy, clutter (both mental and physical) is your enemy, so show clutter of all types no mercy.
“Every piece of mail, digital or physical, I immediately review," Morehouse says, explaining his approach. "I look for excuses to throw things away rather than reasons to keep them. I take action immediately. I pay bills the minute I get them, whenever possible, and throw away or delete the envelope. I take a photo of business lunch receipts, email them to myself, then throw away the paper and delete the photo off my phone, all while still waiting in line to get my order.” 

3. Let your subconscious do the work

If you're not aware you're working, you're unlikely to feel busy. And yes, it is possible to get stuff done without ever feeling like you're slaving away, Morehouse claims. You just have to rely on that trusty friend, your subconscious.
“I think about my work all the time," he says. "In the shower, lying in bed before I fall asleep, while on a walk, in traffic, and almost everywhere else, unless I specifically decide to put it on hold. The advantage to this is that by the time I sit down to get cranking away, the bulk of the hard work is done.” 
The ease with which his problems solve themselves is thanks to the “power of the subconscious,” Morehouse claims. “Wrestling with ideas consciously triggers your subconscious mind. When you are distracted, or sleeping, or too tired to consciously focus on them anymore, they're still bouncing around in there. By the time you need to call them to the front of your mind again, often problems have been solved and ideas have been improved as they spent time doing whatever magic your brain does to them with a little time.”

Source:
http://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/3-secrets-to-being-super-productive-without-feeling-busy.html


Wednesday, 22 April 2015

12 Habits of Genuinely Courageous People - part 1 of 2

How many do you possess?
BY JEFF HADEN

Think of courage and you may first picture physical bravery, but there are many other forms of courage. After all, "Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it." (Who should know better than Nelson Mandela?)
That means bravery--sometimes an extraordinary level of bravery--is required in business and entrepreneurship. Like taking a chance when others will not. Or following your vision no matter where it leads. Or standing up for what you believe in even though those beliefs are extremely unpopular.
Or simply doing the right thing, even though the right thing is definitely the hardest thing.
(Think of courage that way and you may be surprised by just how brave you really are.)
Here are ways otherwise ordinary people display extraordinary courage:
1. They're not afraid to believe the unimaginable.
Most people try to achieve the achievable. That's why most goals and targets are incremental rather than massive or even inconceivable.
Incremental is safe. Believable is safe. Why? When you play it safe you're less likely to fall short. You're less likely to fail. You're less likely to lose credibility and authority.
Don't be afraid to expect more from yourself... and to expect more from others by showing--and helping--them strive for "unsafe" heights.
2. They're not afraid to be patient.
When things go poorly, changing course or simply giving up is often the easiest way out.
It takes more courage to be patient, to believe in yourself, and to show people you believe in them.
Showing patience in others also shows you care. And when you show you truly care about the people around you, they find ways to do things that amaze everyone--including themselves.
Don't be afraid to give other people the gift of patience; it costs you nothing, but could mean the world to the recipients.
3. They're not afraid to say no.

Turning down huge requests is somewhat easy, but can you say no to requests for favors or demands on your time?
In those cases, saying yes is usually the easiest move. Saying no, even when you know you'll later resent or regret having said yes, is much harder. Yet it's often the best thing to do, both for you and oftentimes even for the other person.
Don't be afraid to say no.
4. They're not afraid to take an unpopular stand.
Many people try to stand out in a superficial way: clothes, or interests, or public support for popular initiatives. They're conspicuous for reasons of sizzle, not steak.
It takes genuine courage to stand out by taking an unpopular stand.
Don't be afraid to take risks not just for the sake of risk but for the sake of the reward you believe is possible... and by your example to inspire others to take a risk in order to achieve what they believe is possible.
5. They're not afraid to ask for help.
No one does anything worthwhile on his or her own. Even the most brilliant, visionary, and fabulously talented people achieve their success through collective effort.
Yet it takes courage to sincerely and humbly say, "Can you help me?" because asking for help shows vulnerability.
Don't be afraid to ask for help; not only will you get the help you need, you'll also give the gift of respect.

Tuesday, 10 March 2015

Your Daily Quote - FOCUS

People think focus means saying yes to the thing you’ve got to focus on. But that’s not what it means at all. It means saying no to the hundred other good ideas that are there. You have to pick carefully.
Steve Jobs