“Why live an ordinary
life, when you can live an extraordinary one?”
Tony Robbins
Tony Robbins
So many people give the best they can – at work, at home,
and yet, when they look at their life, something is missing. Can you pause and
have a look at where you are at, and identify the gaps? It might turn to be a
useful 15-20 minute exercise.
In order for you to feel satisfied and fulfilled with your
life, you need to have a balance in your “achievements” in all areas of your
life – family, relationships, finances, health etc. Even if one of them is lagging
behind, the energy flow gets interrupted and the light that comes to your life and
shines through everything you do gets dimmed.
So take time out and do some self-evaluation. First, decide
what is important in your life – health, family, business… For the sake of
completeness, you can use the list that is most often referred to when “auditing”
the areas of your life:
- - Family - Health
- - Personal Growth -
Finance
- - Career -
Attitude
- - Social Life -
Relationships
You can choose to break down relationships into Business,
Personal or Intimate. Or change Personal Growth with Spiritual Development. Or
you can put aside Attitude, and work with the other 7. But it’s important to
encompass ever area of your life, analyse it and mark on the graph: How
satisfied are you with each and every of these areas, out of 10?
Reflect and mark how successful you think you are in each,
at this stage of your life. If you have a successful and fulfilling career,
give yourself a 9 or a 10. Shade the area on the graph. If you are struggling
with your finances, give yourself a 2, or a 0. If you are in an un-resourceful
relationship, mark yourself with 1, and make a change straight away!
Now, look at the shaded areas of your life, and make a call –
are you equally successful, and satisfied, with all areas of your life? Or are
there one or two that clearly are calling for an intervention? Analyse and make
a list of the areas you need, and want, to pick up your game at.
If you want to achieve harmony and fulfillment, raise the bar,
and start taking action!
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