How to use "The Secret" to find a "Soulmate"

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Your Daily Quote - Love Yourself

“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” 
― Gautama Buddha

Your Six Core Needs - Significance and Importance, Part 5 of 7

Significance and Importance

Every person places different weight on the first four needs – some need more connection, others – more variety. But the special thing about significance is that all other needs naturally lead to, and contribute to its fulfillment. If, for example, you get a pretty, fragrant bunch of flowers for your lady, you give her the surprise of variety, which in turn is a reminder and proof of how much you love her. But the thought, the intent, the gesture ultimately tell her that she is special, and it is a confirmation of her significance and importance – in your eyes, and in the eyes of the universe. Same – when you pay her a compliment – for her cooking, her dress, the impeccable way she organises her wardrobe…

And vice versa: if you acknowledge your man for his achievements – whether it’s his career, the way he played tennis the other day, or that he always looks after and protects his family, you are not only showing him love and affection. You are re-iterating to him that he has value, that he is worthy of being “the head” of the family, to consider himself a man of status and standing. Because when you are worthy and significant, you know you belong, and you know you are good enough. Good enough for the role you have in life, for the people you choose to surround yourself with.

Even more amazingly, a person’s significance feeds not only on the love and acknowledgement received. Your significance cup gets full also when you GIVE significance to others! When you listen to others, appreciate their contribution and start noticing the positive things in them, every little achievement, you give them attention and a feeling of completion that reflects back on you. And then you, in your turn, feel fulfilled.

So, be open to these little discoveries. Be observant and present. Be both a giver and receiver. Tell your partner how great they look, laugh at their joke, look them with admiration. Show them, time and time again, that he is your king, that she is your queen. And, just like a champagne tower, this attitude of attention, acknowledgement and gratitude will gradually fill the glasses of all your other needs.

Elena Alexandrova-Long

Your Coach to Success

www.envisionlifedesign.com.au

Your Daily Quote - Your Attitide

The universe is not punishing you or blessing you. The universe is responding to the vibrational attitude that you are emitting. 
~Abraham Hicks