The areas of your life

Following the article on the wheel of life, in the next few weeks we will focus on all areas of life we touched on.
And we will start with a main tool for attracting to your life WHAT YOU WANT.
The power of your thoughts!

Elena

Your Daily Quote - Relatiohships

A relationship is like a house. When a light bulb goes, out, you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.

Wheel of Life

“Why live an ordinary life, when you can live an extraordinary one?”
Tony Robbins

So many people give the best they can – at work, at home, and yet, when they look at their life, something is missing. Can you pause and have a look at where you are at, and identify the gaps? It might turn to be a useful 15-20 minute exercise.

In order for you to feel satisfied and fulfilled with your life, you need to have a balance in your “achievements” in all areas of your life – family, relationships, finances, health etc. Even if one of them is lagging behind, the energy flow gets interrupted and the light that comes to your life and shines through everything you do gets dimmed.

So take time out and do some self-evaluation. First, decide what is important in your life – health, family, business… For the sake of completeness, you can use the list that is most often referred to when “auditing” the areas of your life:

-          - Family                                    - Health

-         - Personal Growth                     - Finance

-          - Career                                    - Attitude

-          - Social Life                              - Relationships

You can choose to break down relationships into Business, Personal or Intimate. Or change Personal Growth with Spiritual Development. Or you can put aside Attitude, and work with the other 7. But it’s important to encompass ever area of your life, analyse it and mark on the graph: How satisfied are you with each and every of these areas, out of 10?

Reflect and mark how successful you think you are in each, at this stage of your life. If you have a successful and fulfilling career, give yourself a 9 or a 10. Shade the area on the graph. If you are struggling with your finances, give yourself a 2, or a 0. If you are in an un-resourceful relationship, mark yourself with 1, and make a change straight away!

Now, look at the shaded areas of your life, and make a call – are you equally successful, and satisfied, with all areas of your life? Or are there one or two that clearly are calling for an intervention? Analyse and make a list of the areas you need, and want, to pick up your game at.

If you want to achieve harmony and fulfillment, raise the bar, and start taking action!

Your Daily Quote - challenge yourself

"Do one thing every day that scares you."

Eleanor Roosevelt

Earl Nightingale - Think Well and Profitably

All these 50-60 years ago, Earl Nightingale shared the same old truths:

"The key to a human being's success lies in their mind. ...
Use the gold mine between your ears" 

How can YOU make sure that your contribution, your service, match your INCOME GOAL?

Your Daily Quote - Extra

Jimmy Johnson

Raising Your Standards

Raising Your Standards

When you make a decision that you want to change your life for the better – better health, better relationships, better finances, you need to take action and RAISE your own standards. If you want to improve your life and get different results from your actions, you actually have to change what you do, and how you do it. As Albert Einstein defines it, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.

Only when you change the way you treat yourself, you will start paying more respect to the person in the mirror. How do you start the day – do you greet yourself with a smile, looking forward to what you will achieve, or do you get out of bed with a frown and walk the walk of the doomed?

If you don’t think your body is in the shape and fit you deserve, how can you start changing that?  Would you spend the evening on the sofa with a bowl of chips, or would you say: “enough is enough – I’ll go for a walk and have a nice salad for dinner”?

If the kind of relationships you attract are not enriching you and bringing out the best in you, and your partner, why wouldn’t you make a list of what you actually want and deserve?

Whatever areas of your life you want to improve, if you want anything to change, you have to raise your standards right now!

So take a moment, make a decision and prepare your lists on:

1            - Things you will no longer tolerate in your life

2       - What you expect of yourself and what you will do instead (instead of No.1).

Make a list of ten items, and start acting on them. In two weeks increase to 20, and start implementing the changes.

Because the small steps you take today, the humble, or more brave, degrees you start raising your standards by, will multiply the results month by month, year by year. Think of the amazing outcomes you will have achieved in 10 years! All starting with a small list of ten items – ten things you will no longer tolerate in yourself, and TEN that you aspire to.

Elena Alexandrova